It’s a big week here for 13.5. She and her friends are getting ready for the Washington trip at school. It’s a three-day excursion with lot’s of rules for safety, a packed schedule to wear out the kids – and I’ll admit it, a week’s worth of strategizing for the single dad.
The first phase of strategy for the Washington trip occurs now, a full 72-hours before I drop 13.5 off at 5:30AM at the school. This is where I want her to feel in control about what she takes, but at the same time make sure she’s ready for rain, cool to cold weather and a lot of walking. In the grand scheme of things this is not a huge deal. She’s a trooper and will be with her friends so she’ll get through.
The next strategy is about planning. 13.5 is a little challenged in this area. Perhaps using me as a role model isn’t great, but she should be ready for all possibilities so this will include a trip to the pharmacy before the Washington trip rolls out of the school parking lot.
Finally, there is the strategy I’ll have to employ to contain myself and let her have this adventure. Yeah, we go through this in the summer with camp, but that feels different. Maybe it’s because her sister isn’t with her – I’m not really sure. She’ll have her phone and I am sure (because I’ll tell her) she’ll text a few times a day. But still, I have to let her experience the Washington trip her way.
So, Tuesday night she and I will drop the bags at the school. Wednesday morning bright and early we’ll head out – I know she’ll have a great time. And I’ll look forward to hearing all about it on Friday night.
Until then, a lot of strategy will be applied to the Washington trip.