Shortly after I got both girls out to school this morning, as I sat down to plot out my day and finish a cup of coffee in came a call from the school district. It was from the line they use for robo called – ConnectEd they call it. At that time of day, this is usually an innocuous call – report cards are released, athletic events at the school, PTO fundraiser. Today it was not the case. Today was a lesson about living in the world we live in for my older daughter.
This morning’s call was about a “numerous reports” of threats to the school. Here is the text of the message from the school principal:
Good morning this <the> Principal of the high school to inform parents of a threat to the school circulating on social media. We have received numerous reports of a “threat to the high school” being posted to social media. To this point there have been no specific information posted or brought to our attention as to where the threat originated or what the threat is.
At this point we have increased our security presence at the high school and have contacted our School Resource Officer from the 6th Precinct who will be reporting to the high school.
I like parents of all the kids in the high school had a HUGE decision to make on almost no information. It was interesting to see how things unfolded in the parent groups on Facebook and Pinterest – and some ran for the school to get their kids, others pontificate about the state of our society and some offered prayers.
In a decision I made – which I am not overly concerned being reflective or not of the rest of the community we live in – I decided to leave 15.5 in school, monitor things (not via social media) and be ready in case something came up. My thought simply is this is the world we live in, and we need to live in – not be afraid of it.
Similar to going to NYC amidst “heightened” terror threats or air travel during these times – this is the world we live in, and we need to be living in the world we live in.
While parents lined up (and complained on social media about the disorganization) to get their kids from the school – I checked in with our police precinct. It was looking more and more like the threat was a hoax. I don’t want my daughter to be afraid of the things she’ll face in life, I want her to be smart and confront them.
I am not a reactionary thinker:
A reactionary is a person who holds political views that favor a return to the status quo ante, the previous political state of society, which they believe possessed characteristics (discipline, respect for authority, etc.) that are negatively absent from the contemporary status quo of a society
And I don’t want my children to be. I’d like to think I am deliberate in my thinking and hope to share that trait with my girls:
To deliberate means to carefully think or talk something through — it also means slow and measured, the pace of this kind of careful decision-making. If you chose deliberately, you make a very conscious, well-thought-through choice.
Admittedly, I did hedge. I changed a couple of morning meetings to calls so I could be closer to home. As the morning wore on and it became clear things had calmed down at the school I jumped back into the day as planned. As I was heading toward my new office came the next ConnectEd call offering some further explanation:
You may be aware of a rumor that circulated yesterday evening, March 9, 2016, via a social media group message. After a thorough investigation by the <edit> School District, it was determined there was no confirmed threat to the high school or any school building within the District. The circulated social media group message never stated a threat was scheduled to occur; instead, it consisted of multiple parties asking if other recipients had heard of any possible risk.
As a precaution, the District involved the <edit> County Police Department, who confirmed there was no credible threat. Nonetheless, as an additional precaution, the District has increased security presence at the high school today, March 10, 2016.
As parents we all have to make decision – sometimes snap and often with little information and few facts. I try to be consistent in decision-making – deliberate and not reactionary. I want to teach my kids about living in the world we live in – not in an idealized past or non-existent Mayberry.