While it’s not quite time to start preparing to go back to school here, with about two weeks of summer vacation left for my girls, I can look back at all that I learned over the last eight weeks. As they get ready to go back to school, my summer school is coming to a close.
Lesson one was (and as if this writing is) 16.0’s lifeguard career at a semi-local water park. Forgetting the driving and scheduling that I ended up jumping through – I can honestly say I am proud of the work ethic she has shown this summer. It’s clear to me work ethic is a learned trait. I saw my mother work hard to provide a home for her three children – and I’ve tried to emulate that. From my days at Valley Caterers (perhaps even before that when I was delivering newspapers) through my career.
I’m pretty sure my girls have seen how hard I work to make sure they have a happy home to live in – OK, sometimes I remind them too. They don’t get everything they ask for – but they know that nothing comes without work, and that is a trait 16.0 has shown this summer.
Lesson two came just this week when 13.5 had her orientation for high school. I have to admit, having them both on the same school schedule will help me. But 13.5 got into the orientation and took it seriously. She even surprised me by jumping into fall athletics at the school (she tried out for and made the tennis team). For her, this is a whole new approach to school – being active and eager. We’ll have to go over to the school next week to get her into an art class she really wants to take (another sign of her taking an active interest in her education).
I spent a lot of time with her over the last 12 months talking about taking a new approach – no long lectures, no screaming matches. Just timed conversations that seemingly worked.
Lesson three was also last week when 16.0 took a week off from lifeguarding to return to Camp Good Grief as a volunteer counselor. This was something I introduced the girls to about five years ago as a way to be able to talk about the loss of their mother. Both have said their years there were good – and I’m so thrilled 16.0 feels the need to give back a week to help other kids overcome an obstacle they’ve dealt with.
Two weeks to go until first bell at the high school. I supposed that’s also two weeks to go until my summer school is out.